Create a Sacred Virtual Space

Going virtual is a whole new avenue for creating a sacred space, but it can be done easily with a few simple adjustments.  Creating a sacred virtual space is easy!  This blog contains many things to consider as you continue your important Nurse Coaching work over a computer screen or telephone, so it is a sacred virtual space.

Nurse Coaches are experts at creating safe and sacred spaces for clients to share their hopes, fears, challenges and opportunities through health coaching. In fact, Nurse Coaches are leaders in inspiring positive change in the healthcare system! This can be done 1:1, small groups, large groups, meetings, Healing Circles, and more.

Your Background Says a Lot About You!


Virtual Sacred Space In Your Background

Your background says a lot about you and your life, and I’m not talking about your experience!  I’m talking your physical back drop. Is it what you hope to, or want to portray as a professional?  Is it cluttered with papers, books, distractions?  Is their opportunity to clean it up a bit?

Take a screen shot of you on an electronic meeting, then constructively assess how your backdrop really looks. How can you spiff it up, so it reflects how you’d like to be portrayed?

Set Up in a Quiet Environment

Again, your environment says a lot about you, so set up in a quiet environment. People cooking or walking behind you, or a child running by in diapers may be your reality, however obvious distractions are diversions from the task and sacredness of the space you are trying to create.

Try to avoid loud spaces like coffee shops or other noisy places.  If you’re only choice is to work in a coffee shop, arrive early so you get the best seat in the house, the one in the far back corner, so no one can walk behind you, and wear a separate headset and microphone, not just your computer.

Set Agreements

Let’s face it, humans all have differing agendas.  When you set shared agreements upfront, you avoid misunderstandings, and create a safer, trusting space between all parties.

Use Candles to Set the Sacred Virtual Space 

Lighting a candle has a way of setting a sacred tone for anyone who sees it, so use candles to set the sacred virtual space.  Take a moment of pause and light a candle that you and your client can focus on as you both set an intention for the meeting.

You might even ask your client to bring their own candle and match, and you can both light your candles together.

Insert NatureNature In Virtual Sacred Space

Nature has a way of creating calm and focus.  Consider adding a plant (real or fake) to your background.  Try a session sitting outside with a tree, water, or a garden behind you.

Pick some flowers from your garden and pop them into a pretty vase to create a center piece for your client to focus on.  Ask your client to create their own center piece, plant or vase of flowers.

Calming Sounds

Music, chimes, light language, songs, can be very valuable.  If you use these in your practice, be sure to check your volume before you start an awareness practice, so the tone of the sound is clear and not distorted on the receiving end.


Silence is powerful.  Discuss the importance of silence, and that there will be space for quiet within a session.  Silence is one of the most important concepts to create a sacred virtual space.

Distractions Off

Agree to turn phones and device distractions off.  Remember the home phone too!  It inevitably will ring right in the middle of a meditation.  Turn off email or appointment reminders too!

Begin (or end) with a Reading

Poetry, a special quote, a relative passage from a book you are reading can open up new possibilities.  Find something to special that your client may relate to, or that you think is very special.

Avoid Abrupt Endings

Ever get kicked off a meeting at the end without getting to say good-bye?  It’s unsettling!  If you are hosting the meeting, allow people to leave gradually on their own, versus clicking the ‘end’ button abruptly.

Check Your Expression

Facial expressions are magnified on video.  Check your expressions every so often to see what you are doing.  Be brave to watch a video recording of yourself so you know how you look! Smiling Nurse Coach In Virtual Sacred Space

Look into Your Camera

It’s difficult to make eye contact in a virtual platform, but on occasion remember to look directly into your camera.  It will appear you are looking directly into your client’s eyes.  No need to do it the whole time, because, well, that can be weird.


Manage Time

There is no telling where a coaching conversation will go, if you fail to manage time the end of your session  may feel rushed and abrupt.  To ensure a smooth end of call transition, allow timSacred Virtual Space Time Managee to summarize, establish goal setting, set a calendar date for the next session and still have enough time to smoothly, and calmly say good-bye.

Save bout 20 minutes before the scheduled end of the call to manage your session closure in peace.

Don’t be so Serious

Yes, Nurse Coaching is serious business, however, it’s ok to have some fun with your clients too.  Let them see you are truly human.

Be Patient with Yourself

Be patient, going virtual can be intimidating.  So much equipment, buttons, doo-dads, and it may seem like everyone is doing it, but even the seasoned pros had to learn at some point!  Practice with a friend or peer, so you feel comfortable before your session.  Test your equipment, sound, and camera before your session. It’s ok to let your client know you are new to the virtual scene and allow yourself to be a little vulnerable.  Improve after each session.

What tips have I missed?  Please share your successes in a comment below.  Creating a sacred virtual space in a Nurse Coaching practice takes all kinds of ideas.  Share yours to help your fellow colleagues be successful!  Want to learn more about Nurse Coaching? Click here>>>



Nicole Vienneau

Nicole Vienneau MSN, RN, NC-BC is a recovering burned-out ICU Nurse.  Through Integrative Nurse Coaching and holistic modalities, she’s on the daily voyage to well-becoming.

Nicole is founder Restoration Room  and Blue Monarch Health, an author, podcast host of the Integrative Nurse Coaches in ACTION!, holds a board certification in Integrative Nurse Coaching and combines 20+ years of Nursing with 30+ years of fitness, health coaching and energy work to partner with mid-life women and healthcare workers who want to THRIVE!

She loves her husband, her two crazy cats and enjoys being in nature and having fun.

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